February 8, 2013

2 Ways To Eliminate Negativity In Your Life

Today’s message is one that can really change everything for you. It will change your relationships, your family, your business, your career, and your future. Because the reality is, we […]

Today’s message is one that can really change everything for you. It will change your relationships, your family, your business, your career, and your future. Because the reality is, we all have negative influences in our lives. You know, the people who mock, criticize, condemn, complain, blame, or don’t believe in you. And those people can be your friends, family, co-workers, or business partners.

Mockers will mock, criticizers will criticize, and condemners will condemn. That’s just what they do. And they don’t just do it to you – they do it to everyone around them.

So what do you do with those negative people?

Well, you have 2 choices. First, you can remove them from your life.

Your environment is everything. I’m sure you’ve heard that birds of a feather flock together, and oh, how true that is! So stop and ask yourself a few questions. Who are you surrounding yourself with? What are you talking about? What are you watching on TV? What are you reading? Is it positive? Is it spurring you on and pushing you towards success? Is it beneficial? This is all part of your environment. If your environment is negative, it would be wise to remove the negativity.

Your second option is to learn how to deal with negative people.

You have to understand that negative people actually do have a purpose in your life. I know what you’re thinking right now… "Dani, the only purpose those people have is to tear me down and tick me off!" Uh-uh, not so fast!

Those people are in your life to test how badly you want it, whatever "it" is for you. Are their negative comments enough to make you quit working towards your goals?

Also, have you ever noticed that when you see people who are negative, it provokes something in you that says, "Wow, I don’t want to be like that!" Why is that? Because those negative people help you define how you do and don’t want to act. It actually shapes who you will become!

They also produce endurance and perseverance. Do not be overwhelmed or overtaken by the challenges you are facing. These times when you are under pressure and facing negativity are the times that produce perseverance inside of you. So do not give up and do not give in to those negative people! Press on so that you may become mature and lacking in nothing.

Another thing you have to understand about negative people is that no matter who you are, what you do, or what level of success you attain, there will always be negative people around you.

But remember that you cannot change other people! Do not take their negativity personally. It is THEIR problem, not yours! Let ’em mock, criticize, and complain while you make a ton of money, crush your debt, and live a life that exceeds your dreams!

Stop whining and complaining about the Negative Nellies and Neds in your life – it makes you sound just like them! When you focus on the negative people and things, you will actually get more negativity in your life. So choose to focus on the positive things. Choose to focus on your goals. Quit being the victim who says, "I can’t afford it," or "I can’t do it," or "Nobody believes in me!"

Today, I want you to stop focusing on who is against you. You don’t need everyone to support you. All you need is one person who is for you… and HELLO!!! If you have been receiving these emails from me every day or spending any time on our Facebook page or website, you know that I am for you! Our team is for you! The entire DaniJohnson.com community is for you! We are here to eqiup you to succeed wildly and to push you towards your goals.

My friend, I believe in you and I am behind you 100%. I am here to help you succeed, to help you reach your goals, make more money, annihilate your debt, and raise a successful family.

The truth is, we live in a very negative society today. People are so quick to talk about how bad the economy is, how hard times are, and how nothing ever works out for them. Everyone – and I mean everyone – could use some encouragement and positivity in their lives as they deal with all of the negativity that is thrown at them every single day. So would you join me in spreading this message to a hurting world? Just go ahead and send this message to your friends and family. Please also share this post on Facebook and Twitter.

I hope this has helped you to know how to handle those people in your life who you feel have been pulling you down or holding you back. I’d love to see your comments about negative people and how you will use today’s message to help you in your own life.

Other than that, have an awesome day! And Until next time, God bless!

 

In great faith,

 

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P.S. If you are serious about learning how to deal with all kinds of people, this will give you a head start. Imagine what life would look like if your people problems were solved…

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