How’s your sex life?
Amazing? Fresh? Exciting?
OR… somewhere in-between?
For some couples, sex energizes and excites – breeding TRUE intimacy and closeness.
But for many couples, sex is a stressful, emotion-filled chore… easier to avoid, than enjoy.
For many men, every negative self-opinion of inadequacy, failure, brokenness or under-performance at work – or in life – comes crashing down around them, THEN appears in the bedroom. NOW, add on any frustration they might be experiencing with their wife, and it just becomes easier to numb-out with TV, booze or sleep.
But, it’s not just men… MANY women drag just as much emotional baggage into the bedroom! Feelings of loneliness, abandonment, disappointment and even, physical or mental abuse, can crush any desire to be intimate. Maybe you feel unattractive after having a kid or two. Maybe you worked your butt off all day, and now just totally wiped-out when you finally make it to bed.
Or worse, maybe your trust has been broken.
It really IS no wonder why so many couples struggle with sex.
But, here’s the thing, you can choose to hug “your” side of the bed, drift apart or divorce.
You remember, when you couldn’t stop thinking about your spouse. You couldn’t wait until they got home (and sometimes you didn’t wait).
Those days when you texted each other all day long… texts you probably wouldn’t show your kids. Those days when you looked forward to “date night.” Now, you don’t even have a date night on the horizon…
So, what do you do? Counseling? Read a book? A bible study? Maybe.
The fact is, we probably never got ANY training in this area of our lives. So, where DO we go to get training, if no one ever took the time to teach us? Our friends with all of their baggage?
Well, one thing’s for certain – you and your partner must make the decision to not quit, TOGETHER. You can’t even entertain it. You have to say, “Obviously, we have to learn something new to succeed in this relationship. There must be a piece of wisdom we’re supposed to gain from this.”
See, all of these challenges in your marriage, just expose a place where you lack a skill… even in the bedroom!
Challenges expose a weakness in your foundation, a rift you must fill with a new skill – whether it’s the skill of developing better communication with each other; the skill of forgiveness; the skill of side-stepping resentment, bitterness and judgment; the skill of perseverance; the skill of rejecting division and clinging to unity.
You will never succeed at anything in life, if you just give up. When times get tough, it’s easy to talk yourself out of a commitment you made. But you, my friend, were not called to do what’s easy! You are called to wisdom; you are called to freedom; you are called to do the right thing!
So, if you face challenges right now in your relationship, just know those challenges expose an opportunity to fill any gaps in your skill sets.
Good news: A skill is simple to learn, to hone, to buy. You know how to learn a new skill. You just have to decide quitting is NOT an option. You have to decide to press ahead. You have to decide division will no longer hold any ground in your life. You’re going to cling to unity, cling to wisdom, and cling to gaining new skill sets… all to enable you to stand firm.
So many issues, beginning outside the bedroom, rear their ugly head IN the bedroom.
Friend, there IS hope. And you need to do EVERYTHING you can to get to our brand-new event, Hot Marriage Secrets.
Honestly, not everyone wants a HOT marriage.
Some couples are perfectly content with an “OK” or “boring” relationship.
But for the select few who genuinely want to ignite a shockingly passionate, fun and harmonious marriage, this special event is for you.
To make 100% sure that Dani is investing her time and effort into the people who will take this event to heart and put it to action, she has created an application process that will confirm that you, and your spouse, are truly serious about the future success of your marriage.
Dani only wants to work with truly committed clients who will intently follow the life changing directions that will be presented at Hot Marriage Secrets.
So if this is you…
…then I highly recommend you APPLY NOW for Hot Marriage Secrets on September 15-17 in Dallas, TX.