Daniel Hagadorn was on a dangerous, destructive path of promiscuity, partying and deceit trying to escape grief from his childhood.
At only eight years old, Daniel Hagadorn’s mom went into cardiac arrest and suffered massive brain damage. The doctors prepared to take her off life support, but she miraculously survived.
“The doctors told us if she could recover within a year, she will be back to normal. But if she didn’t, she would be an invalid all her life. I prayed and prayed and prayed, and that year went by, and nothing changed. It planted a seed of resentment toward God.”
Around the same time, Daniel was volunteering as an altar boy at his Catholic church. Allegations popped up that the priest was molesting some of the other altar boys Daniel knew, but rather than look into it and pursue prosecution, the Church moved the priest to another diocese.
“My upbringing in the church provoked challenges in my life. My experience was that it was very hypocritical, and I didn’t like it. I went from a perfect little angel in public school, to developing a wild streak when I got moved to Catholic school. I was horrible. I was rude, disrespectful, disobedient, I purposely made my teacher cry.”
Daniel and his father continued to care for his mother. But rather than bring them closer together, the responsibility wore on both of them, and Daniel bore the brunt of his dad’s frustration verbally and physically.
“I felt like I had been robbed of my childhood. A little kid shouldn’t be cleaning up his mom the way I did. My heart burned with hatred toward my dad. I would actually contemplate killing him and then killing myself.”
After thirteen years of caring for her, Daniel’s mom suffered a second cardiac arrest and died in his arms. Fueled by bitterness, resentment and anger, Daniel rebelled against his strict Catholic upbringing and got a job as a male stripper within one month of graduating from a small Christian college with a theology degree.
“That was the beginning of a dark turn. My world was the club scene. It was all promiscuity, pornography, smoking, drinking, drugs. I spent five years like that. It was so hollow and empty. I felt scraped out.”
He continued using drugs and alcohol to medicate the problem and continued down the path of destruction.
“I was deceitful and deceptive. Everyone knew a different face of me. I knew exactly what to say to get what I wanted. It eventually led to suicide. I bought a box of sleeping pills, laid down on a bench on Hollywood Boulevard and just waited to die.”
But Daniel didn’t die, and that was his turning point. He rediscovered his faith and starting pursuing real success. He attended a live training seminar called First Steps To Success to grow in his finances, but his experience at the event transformed his life.
“God has used Dani to rebuild my self-worth and breathe life into dreams that I had cast aside and forgotten for so long. I am completely debt free, and my wealth, as I measure it, has multiplied exponentially. I wake up every day blessed to pursue the passion God has given me.”
He completely restored his relationship with his dad, and they had a loving, compassionate relationship when his dad passed away last year. Daniel’s redemption started with a decision to attend First Steps To Success. He knew his life needed to change in a big way, and he found a system that equipped him with the skills to make that change.
“My experience with Dani has been a gift. There is only one word I can think that even comes close to describing that gift: priceless.”
Friend, wherever you are today, whether you are struggling with grief, frustration, bitterness and emptiness like Daniel, or you are simply wondering if there is more to life than where you are right now, make a decision. Get to First Steps To Success. Get all of the details and register right here.